On one hand, I want to foster my son's curiosity. I want to teach him to follow the why all the way to the answer, just like a science experiment. On the other hand, don't ask me why. Just do it because I said so.
I know there is an age and time when asking why is an important step in growing up, learning to think independently, using logic and reason in daily life. When you are two, however, you don't get that luxury. When Jacob asks me why, although in some cases it does warrant an explanation, I tell him, "Don't ask why, just say yes ma'am." See, what he hasn't yet grasped is that I really just want the best for him all the time, everyday. I do things, say things, feed things, read things, pray things that he might question, but it's not really up for discussion. Why is not an option. Just do it because I said so.
Wear your shoes...so you don't step on a nail (always a likelihood in this house of perpetual construction). Eat your supper...so you will grow strong, have a big brain and stay healthy. Give me a kiss...because I want you to learn to show affection. Want some icecream...are you really asking me why??! Don't hurt your sister...because girls should be treated gently and with respect. Where is your ball...so we can play catch because I love spending time with you.
As the mom, I'm always looking out for what's best for my children. Right now all they need to do is trust me.
Give generously. Why? Love unconditionally. Why? Serve others. Why? Love little children. Why? Have a pure heart. Why? Treat others with respect. Why? Obey My word. Why? Don't ask Me why, just do it because I said so.
Trust in the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding.
and lean not on your own understanding.
Proverbs 3:5
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